You can control your dog. Lots of people do. Control them with a leash, control them with corrections, control them through management. And control isn’t aways a bad thing – many times it’s very good and necessary!
But in order to move to the “partnership” level with your dog, you need to move beyond the control. You need to let them be free to make the choice, to use their senses, to respond to the training foundation that you have laid.
This takes time. Lots of time for some.
But the end result is a fluid partnership where your dog is able to bring something to the table that you cannot. Where the dog has self control and is able to make it’s own choices and respond to you without the pressure of repercussion if they make the wrong choice. They’re happy and confident in their work and you can trust that they’ll do the job to the best of their ability.
This is why I enjoyed stock work on the farm with my dogs. This is why I enjoy search and rescue work. I’m shaping a partner who I can work with. A partner who is able to use their innate senses in a team activity to accomplish something that I never could. They can maneuver in a muddy barnyard and keep the sheep from escaping. They can smell that missing person from 100 yards out and pinpoint their location.
In some activities, you never really have to relinquish control but can hover and correct. A sit that slides to a down? You can pull them back up by the collar. Dog in heel position wrong? Leash pops. But you can’t correct a dog into the best way of doing something where their ability is far superior to yours. You shape and build desire, you lay a foundation, you reward what you want, you stop what you don’t. But, in the end, you have to develop enough rapport where you are confident enough to let them do their thing. Without your intervention. Because you’re just going to mess things up.
Of course it’s very possible to train in sports and other pursuits without micromanaging and create a great working partnership. It’s a joy to watch, a thrill to experience and incredibly satisfying. But there’s something insanely cool about knowing your dog is contributing their instincts, where you lay the groundwork and then let them do their thing. And then you stand back and marvel at the way they precisely use their instincts to accomplish a task. You’re partners bringing your own strengths to the team. It’s not something you can force or demand. It’s something that you build based on mutual respect.
Train your dog, then trust them.








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